Most people would be well aware of the hazards and possible benefits of participating in spanking chat rooms and to a lesser extent in spanking forums. However apart from contact magazines which tend to be crude there is little alternative for contacting like-minded adults.
95% of the ladies with whom I've 'consulted' have initially conversed with me via a chat room or forum. Even though I don't believe that disciplinary, redemption or punishment spanking is common in Australia it's not uncommon either. Sadly the channels for contact are limited and I wonder if this is because spankings and associated spanking ritual(s), such as they are, were never widely practised as a means of disciplining children here.
Sure - every child I knew received a smacked bottom growing up and was subject to having their hands strapped at school. Some private schools even caned the boy students for serious offences but I knew no-one, male or female, who was ever spanked in the ways suggested by this and other blogs and I believe this to be a reason why more people fail to capitalise on the 'release' that a spanking can offer.
Incidentally I'm really enjoying this 'blogging' thing. What a great way to vent frustration or to tell the world just how you feel. I'm a late starter and I know I'm not the first to blog on this subject but I'm beginning to understand why so many put so much time into their 'blogs'.
Some of the blogs I've looked at are very amusing, others are more serious and some of them are a little too heavy for my tastes but hey it takes all kinds of people to make up this world of ours.
I probably won't be uploading any spanking pictures on this blog because in my experience most ladies don't really find inspiration in them. However from time to time something will get my attention and if I think it's worthwhile I'll share it on this blog.
Saturday, December 29, 2007
Mature therapy.
I gain immense pleasure in spanking adult female bottoms. I can't deny that.
I have previously noted that some of that pleasure is derived from seeing attitudes altered and goals achieved. I found it interesting, however, the first time I spanked a lady much older than myself.
She had contacted me via a spanking forum board and after numerous chats on-line and two telephone conversations we agreed to meet. I assumed she would be accompanied by her husband or a friend but when we met she was alone. I was surprised but I was pleased that our communication thus far had given her this confidence. We met at a shopping centre in Cheltenham and chatted over coffeee.Her name was Alex (Alexandra) and when we first met she was 56 years of age and widowed. I was 34. She had a full figure, was well groomed and appeared to be dressed for a Board meeting rather than the possible 'Hand to bottom' meeting I had envisaged. Initially I was slightly overawed because this lady was much older than I but after conversing for a while (both of us a little apprehensively) I realised that her needs and wants were no different than those of other spankees I had become acquainted with.
We talked mostly about her relationship with her daughter. She was deeply troubled and explained that she was unwilling to devote a great amount of time to her daughter and her grandchildren due to pressures from her job and her social activities. She felt guilt about her selfishness but was at odds with herself about altering the situation. We agreed that CP might be the answer to her feelings of guilt and even as ameans to encourage her to participate in the lives of her immediate family.
I suggested meeting at a later date to pursue some otk therapy. She said that she wanted to start immediately. Of course I was pleased however I didn't want her to feel rushed or intimidated. She said she was neither and we agreed to travel to a local motel.
I was please to see her waiting at the reception desk when I arrived. We 'checked in' and walked to the room.
I asked Alex when she wanted to begin and she said "straight away". I sat on the settee and she removed her jacket. She folded it and placed it on the chair next to her handbag. Then she opened her handbag and removed an older-style wooden hairbrush. She came over to the settee and handed me the brush without a word. I pulled the hem of her skirt to her waist. I was more than a little surprised to see she was wearing stockings and suspender belt. Like a fool I said to her that this attire (lovely as it was) wasn't necessary for her spanking to be efficient. She replied that she almost always wore stockings and that they weren't worn for my benefit. She said it nicely but it put me back in my place somewhat. She laid herself across my lap and I began to hand spank her over her knickers. She turned to me and asked me to use the brush on her bare bottom. Now this was a little unusual for me because although Alex wanted/needed some emotional release she was not the kind of person to be dictated to even though she was semi-naked across a younger person's lap.
I continued her spanking (with the brush) until she said she was satisfied. The hairbrush is rather more 'stingy' than the hand however Alex endured a long session with it.
We met five or so times a year for nearly three years when she rang me one day with the news that she had decided to cease our meetings. She had retired from her job and I guess she had sorted out her priorities.
I have previously noted that some of that pleasure is derived from seeing attitudes altered and goals achieved. I found it interesting, however, the first time I spanked a lady much older than myself.
She had contacted me via a spanking forum board and after numerous chats on-line and two telephone conversations we agreed to meet. I assumed she would be accompanied by her husband or a friend but when we met she was alone. I was surprised but I was pleased that our communication thus far had given her this confidence. We met at a shopping centre in Cheltenham and chatted over coffeee.Her name was Alex (Alexandra) and when we first met she was 56 years of age and widowed. I was 34. She had a full figure, was well groomed and appeared to be dressed for a Board meeting rather than the possible 'Hand to bottom' meeting I had envisaged. Initially I was slightly overawed because this lady was much older than I but after conversing for a while (both of us a little apprehensively) I realised that her needs and wants were no different than those of other spankees I had become acquainted with.
We talked mostly about her relationship with her daughter. She was deeply troubled and explained that she was unwilling to devote a great amount of time to her daughter and her grandchildren due to pressures from her job and her social activities. She felt guilt about her selfishness but was at odds with herself about altering the situation. We agreed that CP might be the answer to her feelings of guilt and even as ameans to encourage her to participate in the lives of her immediate family.
I suggested meeting at a later date to pursue some otk therapy. She said that she wanted to start immediately. Of course I was pleased however I didn't want her to feel rushed or intimidated. She said she was neither and we agreed to travel to a local motel.
I was please to see her waiting at the reception desk when I arrived. We 'checked in' and walked to the room.
I asked Alex when she wanted to begin and she said "straight away". I sat on the settee and she removed her jacket. She folded it and placed it on the chair next to her handbag. Then she opened her handbag and removed an older-style wooden hairbrush. She came over to the settee and handed me the brush without a word. I pulled the hem of her skirt to her waist. I was more than a little surprised to see she was wearing stockings and suspender belt. Like a fool I said to her that this attire (lovely as it was) wasn't necessary for her spanking to be efficient. She replied that she almost always wore stockings and that they weren't worn for my benefit. She said it nicely but it put me back in my place somewhat. She laid herself across my lap and I began to hand spank her over her knickers. She turned to me and asked me to use the brush on her bare bottom. Now this was a little unusual for me because although Alex wanted/needed some emotional release she was not the kind of person to be dictated to even though she was semi-naked across a younger person's lap.
I continued her spanking (with the brush) until she said she was satisfied. The hairbrush is rather more 'stingy' than the hand however Alex endured a long session with it.
We met five or so times a year for nearly three years when she rang me one day with the news that she had decided to cease our meetings. She had retired from her job and I guess she had sorted out her priorities.
Accountability
My wife and I went shopping today in downtown Frankston Victoria. We've lived on the peninsula our entire married life and we love it here. The beaches are very good, we're close to the 'holiday' spots of Rye and Portsea and we're within thirty minutes of the winery region with its abundant fine wines and excellent restaurants. The only thing about living in Frankston that we don't like is the number of teens who appear to have no manners or respect for others let alone themselves. This afternoon we watched two girls and a boy (teenagers) sitting outside one of the shops in one of the many arcades. The language on all three was explicit and the boy took great delight in talking of his sexual expolits. The girls giggled at his 'story-telling' and added bits and pieces of (we presume) their own expolits. He was dressed in new board shorts but was wearing no top. The girls were in bikini tops and mini skirts. My wife said that her father would never have let her leave the house in costumes like that and I know that I would never have walked the streets without a shirt on. We had to wait in their vicinity while we were collecting a cake we had ordered for our daughter Jade's 12th birthday. We didn't watch them or stare but it was very easy to hear what theywere saying because of the sheer volume they used. We collected the cake and as we walked away I said to my wife "You know what I would like to give those three for a new year's gift?" She replied that she knew exactly what I meant and she added that if all parents today took a somewhat 'firmer' approach to disciplining their children then society might just have a chance of successful and safe survival. I agreed with her and mentioned that schools (read the 'Education Department') are also to blame. It really is or can be that simple. You can't reason with a child (and by 'child' I mean a person having not reached 18 years of age) if they stubbornly refuse to listen or be guided. You could talk until you are blue in the face but today's teens (the majority we have met or have seen) seem to do what they want, where they want and when they want. They don't appear to have the same values we were raised with and they care only about being popular and getting what they want which may they sound like two admirable traits but when it can come at the expense of the comfort of others then it's time we did something.
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